I read somewhere (can't remember where) that checking cm and cervix can ruin the chance of getting pregnant. The article stated that if you are ttc and have sexual intercourse and he ejaculates inside of you that you should NOT insert your finger and check your cervix and cm because it can diminsh the semen that is waiting (I guess they say the finger gets "rid" of any semen waiting). However, my obgyn told me that when you are ttc you should check your cervix by inserting your finger and to also check your cm while your finger is in there. She told me to check it a couple times a day!! I am leaning more to what my obgyn said. Does anyone know? Has anyone heard anything different?

Thanks for any info on this really weird question.