Posted by Silver on January 22, 2004 at 15:14:10:
In Reply to: Someone help!!! sorry so long posted by a desperate girl in search for help!!! on November 18, 2003 at 13:35:57:
: I am in a terrible situation ...
: I live with my fiance and he has 2 kids ... I love them but he had them toooo young and they are only a year apart two boys at that ... the kids mom abandoned them over a year ago and he took care of them well I am taking care of them because obviously if I want to be with him I have to accept his kids also ...
: well I think my fiance was looking for someone like a mother figure for his kids ... and now i'm stuck practically raising them because my fiance works at night and sleeps all day ... i currently don't work but i do the cleaning cooking all that house wife duties ... and it sucks because just months ago i was single, living on my own, by i was with him, so its a big jump. it's not that i don't love his kids, it's just that i am not ready for that responsibility ... i think ... i am also very young ... and i don't know what to do ...
: here is the worst part today ... i went to the gyn ... to get a regular pap exam and get on some type of birth control ... seeing that i am so stressed with my fiances bad a** sons i decided that i was not going to have any children right now ... because i figured that my our relantionship might eventually die out since two kids are involved ... well it turned out that i am pregnant ... that was so devastating to me ... and it sucks because i have no job ... i was in the process of looking for one and i love shopping and i was just going to try to find a way around or out the this motherly responsibility that is not suppose to be my obligation ... i don't know what to do ... i don't beleive in abortion and this sucks since lately i have found myself thinking alot about a guy who i met that is single NO KIDS and i think likes me even though he knows that i have a fiance ... he is actually my fiances friend ...
: some comforting advice ...
: I just want to die right now!!!!!! i dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm glad you don't like the idea of an abortion. If you do think of adoption, I know a couple who is just begging to adopt a child and would love this baby like you wouldn't believe, they have other kids so the baby would have a sibling. She is open to sending letters and emails and pictures of the child to. It's kinda crazy right now for you I'm sure, but I hope the best for you.
-Silver
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