Posted by Nikki on March 05, 2004 at 13:29:29:
In Reply to: My g/f is pregnant posted by James on March 04, 2004 at 18:17:20:
: My g/f has told me shes pregnant im 17and shes 15 im not ready to be a father and want her to have a abortion. But she is refusing saying she going to keep the baby. How can i make her abort this child i dont want it help.
Sorry to be so blunt, but you both should have thought about this before having intercourse without protection.
Regardless of how you feel now, you cannot force her to have an abortion. It's her body and and she is the one carrying this baby, so ultimately it is her decision.
You will just have to deal with this as best as you can, be supportive, and most all just be there for her and for the baby the two of you created together. You made a mistake you have to live with forever.......just try to be positive. And now you know to never have unprotected sex again with a girl even if she tells you she is on the pill. Not to mention the fact that you could catch one of many sexually transmitted diseases. You both should go to the doctor to get checked for the possibilty of any STDs.
Good luck to the both of you.
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