Posted by Kelly on July 17, 2003 at 14:44:30:
In Reply to: Re: advice posted by Jen84 on July 17, 2003 at 14:35:17:
Ok, listen to me.Your life is FAR from over or ruined!!!
I got pregnant when I was 19. I was in an abusive relationship and never had the nerve to leave. I thought I could change him. YEAH RIGHT!!! I wasnt on speaking terms with my family, because they hated him and "I knew better" Well, I had my baby BY MYSELF. I held her in my arms and said this is nuts. If he ever put his hands on her I would kill him, (not just words) She gave me the reason to leave. I did. I felt that I would be alone forever. Who would want a 20 year old with a baby.I made up with my family. I dated but never told the guys about her because I didnt want men in her life and confusing her.
I then met who I KNEW was going to be my husband. Well, when he met her It was love at first site. She is 11 I am married for 4 years now, I have a son with him and a baby on the way. He treats her as if she were his own as do his parents and entire family.
I will admit it was tough before my husband came into my life, but you would be amazed how strong you become after experiencing something like this.
You can do it!! If you want to talk or need advice you can email me. mommysgirl97@aol.com
Good luck sweetie and tight tight hugs for you!!
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