Re: confused

Posted by Isabel on March 10, 2004 at 03:44:00:

In Reply to: confused posted by Amanda on March 09, 2004 at 22:14:59:

I wouldn't let your mom actually "Adopt it" I mean either way you're it's mother,and your mom is it's grandmother.HOWEVER is your mom there for you??She could help you with the baby.I mean take care if it while you're at school etc. but you should take some responsibility.It isn't fair to your mom if she had to do it all.I mean your young now,so maybe your mom would help you a lot..but as you grow up..take on more responsibility until it's fully your responsibility.I am 18 and i'm pregnant.My mom said she'd help me with the baby,but really I don't want help.Like a "Grandma" thing I wouldn't mind my mom doing..but not taking over as mommy.

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