Once your baby is over a year old, she begins to understand
more about life. She is probably able to follow simple instructions, such as,
"Please put this on the shelf." Most babies at this age enjoy reading books --
especially books with pictures of real babies. You can use this love of books
to help you encourage your baby to sleep through the night. You can do this by
writing your baby his own book about sleep. Here's how:
Use poster board or very heavy paper. Your book should be large -- 8 ½" X
11" or bigger. Tape the pages together with heavy tape.
Title your book All About
[insert baby's name]. It will depict the story of your baby's life,
with the focus on sleeping -- and/or weaning, if you want to use this idea to
help wean baby from the breast or bottle. You can also use this idea to wean
baby from the pacifier, or for that matter, to help baby adjust to any major
change in her life, such as introducing a new pregnancy, or dealing with
divorce.
Gather pictures of your baby right from the time of birth.
Start with a shot of her as a newborn, and progress through her life, finishing
up with those that feature actions and items in your bedtime routine. Pictures
of baby breastfeeding, taking a bottle, using a pacifier, wearing pajamas,
reading a book, lying in bed, and sleeping, are the most helpful. If possible,
get a new roll of film and take photos of your baby during every step of your
current bedtime routine -- including several of him sleeping soundly. In one of
the sleeping photos, have Mommy or Daddy in the background smiling and looking
at baby.
Don't make the book so long that your little one will lose
interest, since the ending is, after all, the real goal of the book. You know
your own baby and how long of a book she enjoys. The last section of the book
will be your bedtime and sleep (and/or weaning) goals, outlined very clearly
and specifically.
Read this book every night. (Your baby may like it so much
that she wants to read it during the day, too -- and that's perfectly fine!)
Talk about what you read. Help your little one do the things you talk about in
the book.
As you use this homemade book, also put into action a
complete sleep plan for your baby. Step-by-step, and
night-by-night your baby will move closer to sleeping all night long.
Excerpted with permission by
McGraw-Hill/Contemporary Publishing from The No-Cry Sleep Solution: Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep Through the Night
by Elizabeth
Pantley, copyright 2002 Website: http://www.pantley.com/elizabeth