OK..Im 18 years old and I am not on BC. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend about a month ago. I know I should not have, because I knew, due to timing, I was due for my period in a few days.
Alas, my period did NOT arrive. Instead I just got a bunch of discharge. A few days ago I noticed a creamy white discharge on the condom after we had sex. It was almost foamy.
My breasts have been tender, but I have been putting that aside as rough play during sex because I like it when he plays with them, but they have never been this tender and he has been not as rough this past week cause I told him it started to hurt.
I have noticed alot of bloating, and yesterday I noticed some spotting when I went to the bathroom. I have also been consistantly hungry. I also get small, barely noticeable cramping that is stronger after sexual intercourse or sexual contact (such as masturbation).
Now, last year, around the same time, I had very similar responses and I did not get my period for 3 months. However it was with a different guy, and the condom had broke but he had not ejactulated.
I talked to my boyfriend, my RA in my dorm, my boyfriends friends who just recently had a child of their own (an adorable girl named Emily), and thats about it, but they thought it might be because of stress.
I have no money to pay for a pregnancy test, which sucks because I REALLY need one. so I guess I have a few questions to ask.
a) Could I be pregnant? Or could this just be a typical stress response to end-of-school-year angst?
b) Where can I get a free test? Any nationwide clinics?
c) What should I do if I am pregnant?
I dont want to keep the child, I have no money and neither does my boyfriend and its not my cup of tea (I am self proclaimed childfree), I would go for adoption but I am very much suceptable to high-alert depression, which could cause suicidal tendicies if I go for full-term, and I am pro-choice, but I dont think I could go through with an abortion just because all the clinics I know of are attacked by pro-lifers which would probably send me into a high-alert depression. Also I am very scared of doctors, so its hard either way.
Please help me, I am sooo scared.