Posted by Tammy on February 04, 2003 at 22:51:08:
In Reply to: Re: ? For Steve please posted by Lucia on February 04, 2003 at 20:59:56:
: : : : : : : I have the same problem. I'm pg with #3 and my DH won't do sh** with the other 2. Why am I pg again? lol. Just the other day I asked him to take the kids for a walk, he wouldn't, so I did. I'm 6 mths pg! Then I asked him to play catch with my oldest, 7, he didn't. So there I was, a big fat pg chick, playing catch, helping my 3 yr old skate, and trying to cook dinner! Why do we put up with this? My husband, no lie has only changed 4 diapers. When my daughter was in diapers I had to change her right before I left or take her with me, cause he wouldn't change her!
: : : : : : : : The bathroom trick might work in that case. Good luck!!
: : : : : : Why do you put up with it? He better bring a huge pay check home, if it was my DH he would be out of the door! I can't believe there are still women out there who let their husbands treat them as slaves! Don't you have a voice in your own house? After all he did make these kids too right? Oh! well, no sense going mad over it, my DH is well trained! Lucia
: : : : : yes i get the HUGH pay check he works 12 to 18 hours a day 6 dates a week :)... im NOT a slave i DO take care of my kids, if i was a slave i would jump to his needs NOT! ! ! i dont believe in a 'trained' DH what is he a puppy LOL as far as out the door i did that with my boyz dad an they havent seen nor hear from their so called dad i 5 years.. and i will NOT do that to my daughter and put man that DOES care because he will not change a diaper or fix a bottle
: : : : At least he brings money home! hehehehehe! If he is so nice why are you complaining?
: : : By the way I didn't post that reply to you but to the lady whose husband makes her do everything (cook, take care of her other 2 kids, clean and slave) without helping her! She is also 6 months pregnant!
: : OOh ok me sorry then the reason im complaining is that its to see a daddy do things other than PLAY with the kids.... i watch other daddy's out feedin, changin babies. i think that it would b kinda nice to be able to cook dinner with out havin to stop and change a poppie diaper lol or able to go somehere with out her attached at my hip like a growth lol.. i did ask him tonight when he was gonna start and he told me when she is older and i asked him college LOL he knew i was mad at dinner when i was cookin she needed changed and i said i if u wanna eat a HOT meal then i think its time that you hooked up with a Huggie and a wipe.. did it work nope not at all 45 minutes later she was still smelly :S
: I think some men are just not too good when it comes to dirt work! But you should be happy he is there for her and your other kids. My husband does a lot but he is really into being a super daddy and wanting to be involved, he felt left out during the pregnancy so i think it has a lot to do with that. Well, sorry if I came across as a little insensitive, I just got mad with the lady whose husband makes her work very hard and does not help any. Your men seems to be great and no one is perfect, well maybe moms are! hehehehe!
That is OK im just havin one of them days :S they need to have 4 or 5 Mother's Days :) i know im NOT havin no more lol that is a FACT well i get the shot i know its not 100% i just dont like surgery :S ok im a chicken lol I know what you mean about the other lady i put my now EX husband out he didnt do anything NOTHING! ! ! he was a so called stay at home dad lol the kids was in daycare and he was at HOME no no no i did allow it until i have enuff money saved to put him out LOL which was good for me but hard on the boyz since they dont see him no more that is HIS choice he told the court that he dont have time with WORK ha ha ha