Posted by Elizabeth on August 05, 2003 at 13:29:36:
In Reply to: Re: Am I confusing my kids even more? posted by melinda on August 05, 2003 at 11:16:30:
: : I agree with Lisa, It is good for the kids to see peace between thier parents.I don't mean to get to personal but, do you think you may get back together? Like are you afraid your DD will eventually know,b/c I think she will just feel fine with the situation b/c it's all she knows. But either way it sounds like your handling the situation well with your kids. My parents split when I was younger and I really didnt feel sad.They never let us feel as though we were losing out. My mom and dad still remained friends, even to this day. Hope I made sense, I still have trouble writing what's in my head, lol!! it's sounds good as I'm writing it but then I read it later and wonder what the heck I was trying to say!!LOL!!!Elizabeth, hang in there!!from Melinda....
Melinda, you're doing a great job writing. Anyway, I don't think any one here is a professional writer. I have trouble too.
Anyway, thanks for the great advice too. I have been very confused about whether to take him back or not. I don't want my kids to continue to see any of that which can traumatize them. I am also worried that even if he gets help he may not change. Maybe I'll just have to be separated for a while and let time tell. If he can show me a miracle that he has changed, then I probably would end up taking him back and if it happened again after taking him back, I would leave him for good without another chance. I just want to make the right decision. So maybe time is what I need to be able to make that decision. I am not sure.