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Posted by ME on September 12, 2003 at 13:10:41:

In Reply to: Re: help! posted by erika on September 12, 2003 at 13:07:38:

Then dont worry about it. Ignore the family what matters is him by your side and believeing you... Im sorry you are going through this trying time. But so happy for you that hes standing by you through all this.

: : Does he believe the baby is his? Just wondering

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: : : I am 18 years old and will be becoming a first time mom at the end of the month... I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and am very close to his family but there is a problem ever since i became pregnant his family is now saying they want a paternity test because they dont believe that my baby is his. I dont now how to handle this situation it just hurts so bad that after 4 years they would insist something like that this is the point in my life when i need him the most I dont feel it necessary to do a paternity test for the sake of my reputation that makes me look like im some kind of cheater and will give me a name and not only that i feel embarrased to take one i dont want my Dr.'s to think i dont know who my babys dad is if anyone has been through this please comment i need some advice on what to do...

: He believes that the baby is his and thinks that his family is being ridiculous see he is 21 and still lives at home he thinks it will be a waste of money that neither we or his family have and that its complete bull my family thinks they are being unfair to me and he agrees. his family also goes through his bank books and stuff to make sure that he isnt "wasting" his money on my baby
: but yes he does believe that she is his





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