Posted by gina g on September 12, 2003 at 14:34:15:
In Reply to: help! posted by Erika on September 12, 2003 at 12:49:13:
: I am 18 years old and will be becoming a first time mom at the end of the month... I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and am very close to his family but there is a problem ever since i became pregnant his family is now saying they want a paternity test because they dont believe that my baby is his. I dont now how to handle this situation it just hurts so bad that after 4 years they would insist something like that this is the point in my life when i need him the most I dont feel it necessary to do a paternity test for the sake of my reputation that makes me look like im some kind of cheater and will give me a name and not only that i feel embarrased to take one i dont want my Dr.'s to think i dont know who my babys dad is if anyone has been through this please comment i need some advice on what to do...
Take one you weren't cheating right? So who cares prove his family wrong and make them feel like asses for even questioning it.
Besides if you don't do it everyone will think you cheated probually including your boyfriend. I am sure he loves you but saying no to something like will raise questions in any loved ones eyes.