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Posted by Kelly M on September 13, 2003 at 09:10:00:

Hey sweety.
Listen if you and your boyfriend are 100% sure its yours boyfriends baby there is no need for them tests!!
You and your B/F should noy worry about what hes family say, and what they are suggesting that your are some kind of S**T that sleeps around, You said you got on with them? Maybe you do but do they like you?

I was 17 when i fell pregnant with my daughter, My b/f family took me (he was 22), I thought they was was really nice intill they started saying "if your baby has a dirty face we are getting custody etc" My Dh was very into family is thicker than blood at that time and took their side, In the meanwhile i said well f**c you and i left him gave birth on my own and brought our lovely daughter in the world, Shes 7 now and soon after she was born me and DH got back together, It took a long time to get him out of hes "family values" and relized me and hes daughter was hes "FAMILY" not them!

Please Please dont take any notice of what they are saying! As long as your b/f belives this baby is hes there is no problem!
Inlaws are more trouble than what they are worth, it could destory your relationship with your boyfriend.

You shouldnt have to put you your baby and your boyfriend through this to prove a point to hes family! Im sure you will be great parents with or without hes parents they will have to accept this is their granchild or not, Not your problem its theirs!
Best wishes hunny i hope you do what you think is right

Kelly M

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