Posted by Kelly M on October 02, 2003 at 11:01:59:
In Reply to: hello !! posted by 98chevy on October 02, 2003 at 09:55:36:
Hi 98 chevy.
Sorry to butt in here but...
Wow by the sounds of things you are coping really well. I was a teen mother myself only 17 when i feel pregnant 18 when i had her, Although she was ok it was really hard work and draining!
I cannot imagin how you are coping with 2 babies not to mention their problems. I know how you feel when theses people think your thick and stupid because your young etc, The amount of problems ive had at my daughters school they talked to me like i was a child myself and they assumed i was a single parent due to my age which i thought was quite insulting lol, They had a shock when i told them ive been married since i was 19.
Anyways i have a good friend called simon he was premature hes mother had him when she was only 24 weeks pregnant he only weighed just under 2lb and was the size of a adults hand, He died 5 times was tube fed intill he was 18 months old, The doctors said if he surrived he would be brain damaged or suffer from cerebal palsey. It was touch and go for him in hes first years of life in and out of hospital etc. Well hes celebrating hes 21st birthday next week there is nothing wrong with him apart from hes a bit small and underweight and he has to take tablets everyday for the rest of hes life due to stomach problems but other than that hes a healthy man full of life the doctors say hes a mircal.
I really do hope your little girls get better each day, always think postive! Im sure with a great young mom like you they will be just fine whatever happens.
All the best for the future for you and your little girls