Posted by Mark on November 10, 2003 at 22:06:56:
In Reply to: I know this is a parenting board, but I need opinions! posted by Lonely on November 10, 2003 at 16:00:48:
I see this is a little controversial as others have different opinions. Here is my answer anyway:
My wife and I were at the point of divorce, by the way we have a 4 year old boy. We all know that a person should not stay with their spouse just for the kids sake. My wife and I knew that but we wanted to give this marriage all we had before going to the extreme of divorce. I see you are skeptical regarding counseling. Hey, why not give it a try if you love your daughter as much as you say you do. I will honestly tell you that I felt I didn't love my wife anymore but it takes 2 to build an unhappy marriage. I stopped being selfish and she stopped being selfish. Things are like nothing ever happened (2 years now). I love her like I did when I met her.