Posted by Materni-Tee.com on November 18, 2003 at 20:46:26:
In Reply to: Fight or Flight , A Tug and a Pull posted by Betty on November 18, 2003 at 16:29:23:
I may be reading it wrong, but it seemed to me that you would be happier in Oregon, your husband would too, but your parents would prefer you to stay. I’m sure they also want what’s best for you. However, do you resent ‘chasing your husband’s career’? If so you may want to deal with that issue in some way too. Best wishes.
PS: We moved to the other side of the world for 5 years. Now we’re back near our parents which is great for them, and of course for our children, but we chose to live where it suited us at the time.